About Me

Hi, I'm Denise and I’m glad you’re here.

Selective Mutism of the Carolinas was founded with a mission to provide advocacy, education and evidence-based treatment for Selective Mutism, OCD and other anxiety disorders. I am a clinical social worker by training and my journey as a parent has significantly impacted my approach. I am particularly passionate about helping families whose children or adolescents are struggling with anxiety. I have over 20 years experience working in many mental health settings, from schools to clinics to hospitals.

My work has significantly evolved over the years, as a result of both my personal and professional journeys. I used to work solely from a behavioral (‘fix it’) approach and would focus on changing a specific behavior without appreciating the whole person. This is how most therapists are trained. There are situations (for example, certain presentations of Selective Mutism) in which a behavioral approach yields effective outcomes for families and I use that approach as I see fit for each family.

There are many times, however, when it’s really important to look beyond a specific behavior. Some individuals may fit a neurodivergent profile (including but not limited to ADHD, Autism, trauma or overall a highly sensitive nervous system). Instead of focusing on changing a behavior, I have a deep sense of curiosity about the individual/family with whom I’m working. This curiosity can lead to so much acceptance!

We live in a very ‘one size fits all’ world and my hope is to help individuals accept their unique traits and create change when needed in ways that are fully accepting of themselves.